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Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Now is our time to have faith, to train our children to live by faith and to elect leaders who will trust God

The Faith That Wins!

-Dr. Marshall Foster
Europe is entangled in a war to the death against a relentless enemy out to destroy its precious Christian heritage and bury its liberty. Radical Islam is on the march, manned by tens of millions of immigrants with multiple wives and a massive birthrate. At the same time, most native Europeans have left the Christian faith and fewer and fewer are marrying or having children. The future seems bleak.

What are the known weapons against such a foe? One is the free press which can expose the enemies of liberty. Another is the use of intelligence to rat out terror cells before they act. And when all else fails, there is always the reversion to mass warfare using superior weaponry to kill millions and hopefully break the will of the enemy.

However, these weapons are not sufficient to hold back the tide of Jihad which has been at war with Christianity since the seventh century. There is only one weapon that can defeat the forces of a pagan ideology, whether Nazism, Communism or radical Islam. That weapon is biblical faith. The writer of
Hebrews defines this weapon in Hebrews 11. “Faith is the assurance of things hoped for and the conviction of things not seen.”

Chapter 11 goes on to detail how this weapon was used by great heroes who by faith, “subdued kingdoms, brought justice, obtained promises, stopped the mouths of lions, quenched the violence of fire, escaped the edge of the sword, out of weakness became strong, became valiant in battle, turned to flight the armies of the aliens.” Now that is a powerful weapon. The examples below of three European Christians in the 20th century illustrate the power of the weapon of faith. These men arose at times of great crisis in Europe.

Eric Liddell in the 1920s; Winston Churchill in the 1940s; and Christian Fuhrer in the 1980s. Eric Liddell was an obscure seminary student in Edinburgh, Scotland. But in 1924 Eric rose to fame at the Olympic Games in France. He was considered the fastest runner in the world. But because of his principled commitment to keep the Sabbath, Eric would not compete in his race, the 100 meters which was held on a Sunday. As an afterthought he was placed in the 200 meter race later that week. He beat the world’s best athletes against all odds. He became a national hero in Britain and was offered royal titles and the golden key to success when he returned from France.

But Eric had a larger vision. His faith called him to give his life to the mission field of the forgotten masses of souls in China. So in 1925 he left for China and served there with his father and family, never to return to his homeland. When WWII broke out Eric was warned to leave China as it was being overrun by the Japanese. He sent his family home but felt he must stay with his Chinese friends and was thrown into a prison camp. Winston Churchill and the English offered a huge ransom to get Eric Liddell out of the camp. But as the train arrived to pick him up, he placed a pregnant Chinese woman in his seat. He died of disease in the camp, just 3 months before the end of the war.

How does Eric Liddell’s story illustrate the power of faith? When Eric died there were fewer than 5 million Christians in China. But the Chinese believers were inspired by Eric’s faith and other pioneers of the truth. Eric’s faith and sacrifice ignited the torch of faith in millions. Today the number of Christian believers in China is approaching 200,000,000 and China is expected to become the largest Christian nation in the world in our lifetime. The “Back to Jerusalem Movement” in China is training hundreds of thousands of Chinese believers to take the loving gospel of Christ through the Muslim lands of Asia through Pakistan and Iran and on to Jerusalem.

“Faith is the victory that overcomes the world.”
Eric’s faith saw beyond the moment all the way to our century.


In the 1940s, another crisis of faith in Europe was solved by a man of faith. Europe was paralyzed with fear of the Nazi juggernaut. They had just come through WWI which had killed an entire generation of their men. Now they faced Adolf Hitler. Most people in Europe and America were cowering before the Nazi war machine. Millions of the French flocked to the cabarets, drinking their fears away. The English also were living in a dream world of “peace”. Their prime minister, Neville Chamberlain, even signed a “peace in our time” treaty with Hitler just a few months before the Germans started WWII.

It took the Germans only weeks to destroy the French army and trap the English army, 400,000 men, on the coast of Belgium at Dunkirk. During this crisis, with the eminent fall of England and all of Europe at hand, the English called up an old, Christian warrior, Winston Churchill, to be their Prime Minister. Churchill and King George VI called the people of England back to God in a day of repentance and prayer on May 26, 1940.

As the leaders and millions of English met and wept in faith that day, God answered their prayers. Through the miracle at Dunkirk 600 little boats ferried 330,000 soldiers back to Britain right under the direct fire of Hitler’s tanks and air force. God had turned the treacherous English Channel into a sea of glass and covered the sea with a blanket of fog, blinding the German planes.

However, within weeks the entire continent fell to the Nazis. England faced a summer of massive bombing attacks by the Germans called the Blitz, in which almost 50,000 people perished. How could a 66 year-old political has-been turn the tide of tyranny against the greatest army in history? Churchill almost single handedly lifted a nation and the entire free world from hopelessness and fear through his example of faith and his powerful words.

That first summer when Germany’s eminent invasion of England was looming, Churchill lifted the bar above politics to the real spiritual struggle between paganism and Christianity.
He said. “I expect the Battle of Britain is about to begin. Upon this battle depends the survival of Christian civilization.” In another speech before Parliament, Churchill refused to listen to the voices of surrender. He said, “You ask, what our aim is? I can answer in one word, Victory – victory at all costs, victory in spite of all terror, victory, however long and hard the road may be; for without victory there is no survival.”

The premiere weapon that defeated the Axis powers in WWII was not the bomb or America’s manufacturing of war material. It was faith. And, the spark that ignited that faith was Winston Churchill. He is considered by most historians to be the man of the century. Faith overcomes terror.

In the 1980’s Europe lay divided and on the verge of nuclear holocaust at the hands of the USSR. The Russians had divided Germany with a wall of death since 1960. Into this crisis of civilization stepped an unsung hero. His faith, and that of the East German Christians became the driving force behind the fall of the Berlin Wall on November 9, 1989. His name was Christian Fuhrer, a Lutheran pastor at the Cathedral in Leipzig, East Germany. Christian began the prayer movement in East Germany in 1982. His people gathered to pray for peace and freedom every Monday night at the Cathedral. He and the people were persecuted, beaten and threatened by the Communist government.

But the pastor continued and on October 9, 1989, one month before the unexpected fall of the Berlin wall and the collapse of East Germany, he led a prayer march through Leipzig and confronted the troops and tanks of the government with a hundred thousand people praying and carrying candles of peace. The government troop refused the order to fire on their fellow citizens and dropped their weapons and joined the rally. Simultaneously that night other East German cities held massive prayer rallies. This show of spiritual courage broke the back of Honacker’s tyranny and led to the fall of the Wall on November 9, exactly one month later.

I privately met with pastor Fuhrer in Leipzig at his Cathedral in 2001. What a man of faith and courage! Last year, on June 30, 2014, just as all Germans were beginning the 25th Anniversary celebration of their freedom, Christian Fuhrer went to be with His Savior. He was the man who by faith had inspired an entire nation to stand against atheistic Communism.

The message here for our time is that enemies against God’s plan of redemption for His world are always on the prowl. But God has His “Ambassadors of Faith.” They see beyond the fear of death brought on by bullies of the evil one. The Nazis failed, the USSR failed and the Muslim extremists will fail to extinguish the light.

Now is our time to have faith, to train our children to live by faith and to elect leaders who will trust God to see into the future and as Churchill said, lead us to our “Finest hour.”

Sunday, December 21, 2014

MARRIAGE MATTERS

MARRIAGE MATTERS

Marriage, poverty rates are linked

Few social service agencies or even churches want to address the link between a rise in income inequality to falling marriage rates, for fear of alienating people or encouraging abortion, but it’s hard to ignore a growing body of research into the relationship. For the past three decades, the gap between the wealthiest and poorest Americans has grown quick

WHY SAYING ‘ I DO’ CAN PAY OFF

Family median income growth would be 44% higher if parents married at the same rate as 1980. Young men from intact families earn a premium of $6,500 a year, and young women $4,700, over peers from single-parent families. Married men earn $15,900 a year more than single peers and married women earn about the same as single peers.  For men with a high school degree or less, the marriage premium is at least $17,000.
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*Source: For Richer, For Poorer, study by W. Bradford Wilcox abd Robert Lerman

Marriage, poverty rates connected

This,  at the same time marriage rates for low-income, less-educated Americans have plunged.

A study released earlier this year quantifies some of the financial benefits of marriage. For Richer, For Poorer, conducted by W. Bradford Wilcox of the American Enterprise Institute and Robert Lerman of the Urban Institute, found that:

-        The growth in median income of families with children would be an estimated 44 percent higher if American parents had the same marriage levels today that they did in 1980.

-        Young men who grow up in an intact family earn an annual premium of $6,500 over peers from singleparent families; for young women the premium is $4,700 a year.

-        Married men make an additional $15,900 per year more than peers who are single. Married women earn about the same as their single peers. Married people who were raised in intact families enjoy even greater increases in their household income.

-        The advantages extend across races and educational levels. For instance, black men enjoy a marriage premium of at least $12,500 in income compared to their single peers. For men with a high school degree or less, the marriage premium is at least $17,000.

The divide threatens to become self-perpetuating, as children of wealthier, intact families go on to marry other children from stable families, while prospects for children of the poor grow ever dimmer.

While unmarried births have stabilized a bit in the last few years, nearly 41 percent of births in 2012 – the last year for which statistics are available – were to unmarried women, up from 5 percent in 1960 and 28 percent in 1990.
No one yet knows what the relationship between growing income inequality and falling marriage rates is, and it’s probably a chicken-and-egg argument: Does poverty make people reluctant to marry? Or do falling marriage rates – and especially a rise in unmarried parenting – make people poorer?

The solutions are equally complex. No one wants to coerce people into marriage, and the shotgun weddings of generations ago often turned out badly for all involved. Some abortion opponents are also reluctant to make too big a deal about births outside of wedlock because they want to encourage women to give birth regardless of their circumstances.

But there are policy changes to consider that would help give people the financial stability to consider marriage and reward people who raise children within marriage. According to Lerman, Wilcox and others who study the financial impact of marriage, these include:
-        Eliminating or reducing marriage penalties in the tax code. Marriage penalties are especially high for lower-income Americans; for example, generally two single people making $18,000 a year each would pay fewer taxes than a married couple making the same amount.
-        Increasing the child credit to $3,000 and extending it to income and payroll taxes would help more working- class families cover the costs of raising children. Additionally, expanding the maximum earned income tax credit for single, childless adults to $1,000 could increase their marriageability by contributing to their financial stability.
-        Improving vocational education and apprenticeship programs to help make less-educated young people more employable.
-        Counseling first-time single mothers on the benefits of waiting until marriage to have a second child. School and work options that are possible with one child become much more complicated with two or more.
-        Continuing benefits such as food stamps for three years after marriage instead of cutting them off right away would give couples a chance to improve their financial situation before losing benefits. Additionally, federal and state agencies could reserve a portion of benefits for married couples, such as setting aside 15 percent of housing vouchers for them, to encourage and reward marriage.
-        Launching a public-awareness campaign around what’s known as the “success sequence” that encourages young adults to finish school, get a job, get married and have children, in that order. Such a campaign could be modeled on successful efforts to reduce drunk driving, smoking and teen pregnancy.

Marriage was never a priority for Janelle Odom, not even when she became pregnant at age 20. But as her son got older, she wanted a stability for him that she couldn’t seem to provide on her own.

“I think the first couple years of life kids cling to their mothers, so it doesn’t matter what dad is doing,” says Odom, a hair stylist who lives in Elmwood Place. “But when they start to formulate who they are, around 7, 8, 9, he started to ask, ‘Where’s my dad? Why doesn’t my dad live here? Why didn’t my dad go to daddy donut morning at school?’ I started feeling like maybe if I was married he would feel more stable.

“There was no grand quest to go out and get married,” she continues, “but I definitely made a decision around that time that I’m not doing this again unless I’m married, because I don’t want to take another child through that feeling. I started feeling like I need to change how I date for marriage to be the goal. I didn’t run out and marry the first person, but I changed my dating requirements. I wasn’t just hanging out any more.”

Janelle and Shawn Odom had stayed in close contact with each other, united by their concern for their son. Over many complicated years, their shared responsibility grew into a love and respect for each other, leading to their July wedding.

It’s a heartwarming story, but it’s also a smart financial move for the Odoms. As they receive financial counseling and Shawn Odom pursues his GED, their marriage, bolstered by their two incomes, will make their economic future more stable.

For the Odoms, marrying has meant adjustments – Janelle Odom had never lived with a man before, and finding clothes on the floor came as a surprise – as well as benefits that have extended across their lives. Premarital counseling prompted them to clean up their finances, and both have resolved to make changes – like Shawn Odom pursuing his GED – to stabilize their future together.


“When we did start dating I was like, if we’re going to date, we’re going to get married, we’re going to go to counseling, you’re going to clean up your credit, I’m going to clean up my credit,” Odom says. “Our finances definitely have improved. They’re not perfect, but at least with somebody with you, if you have a plan in mind you realize you’re not going down this road by yourself.